Why Do Western Men Seek Russian Brides For Marriage?

Having provided you with some hard and depressing facts about how difficult it is to meet an attractive woman in a Western country after you have turned 40, we’ll now bring you some better news. To meet an attractive and educated Russian Bride is fairly straightforward if you go about it in the right way. Here we’ll give some clues on what to do and not to do if you are serious about meeting a Russian Bride face-to-face. First of all, you have to find the best online platform to serve your needs, and you have to consider if you are willing to take some risks in the process. If you have been researching how to meet Russian Brides, you most likely have come across stories of how Western men have been scammed when searching for a Russian Bride for marriage. Nonetheless, most of these unfortunate men have actually not been scammed by Russian women, but most often by men either in Russia or today, more often from African countries such as Nigeria and Gambia. The scam is often pretty straightforward, with a man impersonating to be an attractive Russian Bride who is desperately in love with the man she is corresponding with.

After a month or two, something happens that requires urgent action and 1000 USD to solve the problem. The man feeling an emotional connection and an obligation to the woman in need will wire the money through Western Union, whereafter he’ll never hear from her again. Though avoiding becoming a scam victim is easy, it nonetheless happens all the time on free Russian dating websites. The reason is that members are left to fend for themselves on these types of websites, i.e., there are no features or services to help you be safe or with anything else. Hence, these websites function pretty much as local dating websites in the United States or dating websites in Europe where you join and get access to the other members, but there are no other services apart from that. Yet, when it comes to international dating, many services offer a lot more than what most men are used to on local dating websites. As an example of a premium international dating service where you find thousands of Russian Brides for marriage, SecureDating.com stands out. On their website, you’ll find a whole range of services that not only guarantees your online safety but also makes meeting an attractive Russian Bride face-to-face straightforward and convenient.

First of all, the Russian Brides listed on their website have all gone through a face-to-face interview and security check before even joining their service. Also, all correspondence is scanned automatically for clues to whether the man or the woman, e.g., are discussing money. Furthermore, SecureDating.com will handle your first meeting with the woman you are corresponding with, i.e., they guarantee that the woman will show up at a specific time and place. Yet, that is far from all; they also pick you up from the airport and take you to a rented apartment provided by them in a safe neighborhood. Furthermore, they have translators and guides who you are in contract with throughout your stay if needed or anything should happen. In addition, they provide a dating consultant that will help find the right match, and in case there is no chemistry with the women you are meeting, they set you up with new dates on the spot. Also, when you have found a potential Russian Bride for marriage on their website, the website offers live video chat, which gives you a much better impression of the woman you are interested in. Overall, by using a service like SecureDating.com, you don’t have to worry about anything other than finding your best possible match.

The section above described the best way to meet a Russian Bride for marriage. Next, we’ll look at how much it is likely to cost you to meet a Russian Bride in person. Each year, men from all over the world travel to Russia to meet a beautiful Bride hoping to get married and find a partner for life. Some travel first-class, others economy and others again take the bus from Finland to St. Petersburg which cost around 100 USD. Thus, to give a precise number of how much it costs to meet a Russian Bride is impossible. However, we can provide some ideas of what to expect. Let’s begin with meeting a Russian Bride for marriage online. Of course, some services are more expensive than others, and also a lot depends on how many women you are corresponding with and what services you use. Above, we described some of the services a premium agency like SecureDating.com provides, so why not use them as an example.

To join an agency like SecureDating.com is free, but to access their main features, you pay a one-time membership fee of just under twenty dollars; after that, you have become a so-called Lifetime Priority Member, where you free of charge, can open and send seven letters weekly for as long as you keep your profile active on their website. Also included are 10 Chat Credits and 50 Site Credits you can use for other services on their website. On a website like SecureDating.com, you use Credits for paying for whatever service you choose to use. Thus, there are no recurring monthly membership fees, and you only pay for the services you find relevant for you to use, e.g., their Live Video Chat or their gift shop, where you can send a bouquet of roses to the woman you want are corresponding with. However, if you use their services related to on-location bookings of airport transfers or apartment rentals, their prices in Site Credits change depending on how far you are going and the standard of the apartment that you have booked. Thus, to give a fixed price is impossible.

However, when we wrote SecureDating.com to ask how much a male member used before standing in front of a beautiful Russian Bride, the answer was between 750-1.500 USD, including what is spent online, airport pickup, and where they have arranged the first meeting with a woman where also a translater will be present for minimum 1,5 hour. However, that is without accommodation as here the prices fluctuate greatly depending on whether you are staying in a big or small city. On top of these costs, you naturally have airplane tickets that differ in price depending on where you are flying to where you are going. For European countries flying to, e.g., Moscow is relatively cheap, and it is not a long flight, whereas cross Atlantic tickets can be expensive and take a long time. Alternatively, there are, of course, other cheaper websites, but the cheaper they get, the fewer services they provide, and the more risk you take that something along the line will go wrong.

Browsing the many international dating and Russian marriage agency websites, you come across a staggering amount of beautiful Russian Brides looking for marriage. Many of them have university degrees, and to many men, they seem unreachable. However, each year, thousands of women from Russia marry a Western man they have found on an international dating or marriage agency website. Thus, you might wonder why so many attractive Russian women are searching for a Western mand and what they are looking for. In Russian, you find around 37 million single women and women outnumber men in vast numbers; thus, for a Russian woman to find a suitable man in Russia is difficult. Furthermore, culturally Russia is challenged with a male population that drinks too much vodka where 20% of the Russian male population can be classified as alcoholics. In contrast, Western men are perceived to be less fun of drinking and more considerate when it comes to women. And thus, two of the major reasons why so many Russian Brides are looking for marriage to a Western man.

Also, depending on where you live in Russia, life is not always easy from a socio-economic standpoint, especially for women. Thus, even though most Russian women have higher education, finding a fulfilling job in a small town or city is hard. On top of that, salaries in Russia tend to be low compared to Western standards, where, e.g., a medical doctor or a technical engineer makes between 500-1000 USD a month. What is more, Russia is generally male-dominated, which for women provides a situation where opportunities are limited within almost all aspects of Russian society. Thus providing an additional reason why Russian women are looking for a Western man to marry. When it comes to the character of the Western men that Russian Brides are looking for, traits such as kindness and gentle personalities have a bigger chance with a Russian woman versus a man who is full of himself and thinks he is God’s gift to women. To most Russian women having children and stable family life is very important, so when Russian Brides select what men they will respond to, they look for potential good fathers.

Next, matters such as what country the man is from and what he does also play a role when a Russian Bride is looking for marriage. In Russia, there is a strong tradition to appreciate poets, writers, chess players, artists, musicians, and intellectuals who all have one thing in common: they focus on non-materialistic matters. Hence, if you are a kind and considerate man who loves to read Leo Tolstoy or Fyodor Dostoevsky, you most likely will have a better chance with a Russian Bride than a fast-moving business guy in a red Porsche, as long as there is still food on the table and you are a good father. Honesty and faithfulness are also something that every Russian Bride is looking for in a man. Most women in Russia don’t trust men in general, and they are cautious when they meet someone they don’t know. So as a man, you have to earn a Russian woman’s trust and confidence, which is done by being reliable and thoughtful in all interactions with a Russian woman. Finally, when searching for a Western man, a Russian Bride will often choose someone who is 10-15 years older than herself for the simple reason that younger men tend to be less trustworthy and reliable.

One of the findings when asking Western men who have been married to a Russian Bride over some years is that they feel more relaxed and confident than when they dated a Western woman or in their previous marriage. The reason being that if you treat a Russian woman with respect and affection, she always make sure to let you understand that you are her man and being with someone else is far from her mind. Or put differently, if a Russian woman has found a good man, she’ll make sure to keep him. To Russian women being faithful and loyal is a virtue, and even though Russian men tend to cheat on their women, it is unlikely a Russian woman will cheat back to get even. Likewise, no matter if a Russian woman is not in a relationship, she is not likely to sleep around or engage in casual sex. In Russia, some issues like sex and sleeping around are still not accepted culturally, and the mindset is somewhat similar to the 1950s in Western countries.

It is only in the big cities like Moscow and St. Petersburg where women tend to be laxer and more Westernized and where casual sex is becoming more culturally accepted. Accordingly, the majority of Russian women are faithful in most situations. In the cases where Russian women have been reported to cheat on their Western men, the situations in most cases have been where the man has been 25+ years older than the woman he married or where a woman had been mistreated or abused by her husband over a long period. Thus, if you are a nice guy and you don’t marry a Russian Bride half your age, there is no need to worry about if she’ll be faithful to you or not. Also, when you compare the divorce rates between Western men and Russian Brides, they are much lower than the average rates in, e.g., the United States or most European countries. In the United States, 50% of all marriages end up in divorce, whereas around 20% of marriages between Western men and Russian Brides end in divorce, i.e., there is an 80% chance of lasting success when you marry a Russian Bride.

Furthermore, if children are involved in the relationship or marriage between a Western man and a Russian Bride, their well-being will always come first. Most women in Russia realize that children need a father, and thus they don’t gamble or risk destroying a well-functioning family for something as shallow as casual sex. Overall, most Western men who are married to a Russian Bride praise their relationship as something unique and something far from what they were used to, and as mentioned before, they feel more relaxed and confident. So to answer the question of Russian Brides always are faithful? The answer is yes in most cases. Of course, there is always the exception to the rule, but generally speaking, most Western men married to a Russian Bride can rest assured that their Russian woman will stay faithful in most situations. If you want to know more about the characteristics of Russian women, try reading this article we wrote not that long ago – here is the link.